My Writing, My World by Puspanjalee

Today is the last day of me being in my 30s. As the midnight rolls around, I will reach the fourth decade of my life. It seemed like my 20s were a lifetime ago and I spent a whole lifetime in my 30s. To be honest, this was a decade of self-discovery. This was a decade of learning, unlearning, relearning and knowing what I need exactly from life and myself.   I have lost a few things, gained a few and let go of some. But overall, I am grateful that my 30s matured me, most importantly, humbled me and made me appreciate the smallest things. So, here are 40 lessons that I learnt till I turned 40! Change is the most permanent thing in life. Everything, including ourselves, changes with time. If you can not keep up with the changes, it brings disharmony in your life. Set your goals wisely. Do not be influenced by someone else’s goals to live your life. Self-care is important and yes, it does not make you selfish to care for yourself. In extreme situations, your gut instinct is your guide...

 To be honest, I am a little late to the party celebrating aka reviewing the book, Gobi Goes Viral. The book was written by Vibha Batra and illustrated by Shamika Chaves. And I received this delightful book through the Blogchatter Book Review Program. So, why was I late? Well, it's because my 9-years old son laid his hand first on the book and would not leave the book alone. He loved reading it so much that he re-read it twice in a single week.  Naturally, I have to add his thoughts about the book first. Here are they-  Here are my thoughts. The book is all about your willpower and ambition to live a better life. Gopi represents every child including you, me and millions of Indian children who dream big and work hard enough to achieve them. I also liked that the book addressed the issue of bullying in school in an apt manner. I was looking for books that address the issue and the book served this purpose beautifully.  Gobi Goes Viral is a captivating narrative that i...

In a fast-paced digital world, where attention is often divided among multiple screens, developing a book-reading habit can be a fulfilling and enriching experience. Reading books not only expands our knowledge and imagination but also helps improve our vocabulary, critical thinking, and overall well-being.  If you're looking to embark on a journey of literary exploration, here are some practical tips to create and maintain a book reading habit. Start Small and Set Achievable Goals Begin by setting achievable reading goals that fit your schedule and preferences. For example, aim to read for 15 minutes each day before bed or during your lunch break.  Starting with a realistic target allows you to build momentum and increases the likelihood of sticking to your reading habit. Find Your Reading Niche Explore different genres and find what resonates with you. Whether it's fiction, non-fiction, self-help, biographies, or fantasy, choose books that captivate your interest. Remember, ...

Change Your Habits, Change Your Life by Ashdin Doctor First things first, self-help books are a big hit in our bookworm family. We not only read, but discuss the books, analyse the thoughts in the book, follow them and tally the results. But most of such books are written by foreign authors in their context.  So, when I laid hands on the Change Your Habits, Change Your Life and started reading the introduction, it hit me hard. Suddenly I can resonate with the author, I can understand his situation that turned his life upside down, his struggles and his journey. It was a surreal feeling and as I went further, the suggestions seemed coming from someone I know.  Things that I liked The insights shared in the book are easily doable. The author has divided the book into six sections, which are, Understanding habits Getting started with the habits change journey The three golden rule of habit change. Creating successful systems Sustaining habits There...

  As the @netflix dropped the first teaser of the third chapter of the Witcher series, this is the perfect time to revisit the book series by Andrzej Sapkowski.  I read the book in 2018; since then, it has been one of my favourite fantasy series. It is a different world out there where only the worthy can survive. The thought-provoking themes and the plot twists can hook you up to the last word. Although I have no complaints against the first season of the Netflix drama, I am quite sceptical about the portrayal of the third season as the books are much more complex later in the book series.  However, I will always love the book series and the things they taught me.  Here are some life lessons that can be learned from the series: *Prejudice and intolerance only lead to conflict.  The books explore the dangers of discrimination and intolerance, whether it is between different races, genders, or social classes. These prejudices often lead to conflict and violence, ...

Atomic Habits by James Clear is a powerful guide for anyone seeking to build positive habits and break negative ones. In this blog post, we will explore three important lessons learned from the book and how they can help improve your life. Lesson #1: Focus on Systems, Not Goals In Atomic Habits, Clear emphasizes the importance of building good habits through focusing on systems, rather than just setting lofty goals. According to Clear, a system is a set of processes or habits that you consistently follow to achieve a specific outcome.  The key to building effective systems is to make them small and manageable so that they can be consistently maintained. One example of a system Clear recommends is the “two-minute rule.” The rule states that any new habit should take no longer than two minutes to complete. This way, it becomes easier to start and maintain the habit. Lesson #2: Use the Four Laws of Behavior Change Clear identifies four laws of behaviour change that can help individual...

SEO writing is the practice of creating written content that is optimized for search engines. This means that the content is designed to rank well in search engine results pages (SERPs) for specific keywords or phrases.  SEO writing is a crucial skill for anyone who wants to build an online presence, whether it's for business or personal reasons. This post will explore the basics of SEO writing and why it is important. Why is SEO Writing Important? The internet is flooded with content, which means that if you want your content to be seen, you need to make it easy for people to find it. SEO writing helps you do this by making your content more visible to search engines. When your content ranks well in SERPs, it is more likely to be seen by people who are searching for information related to your topic. In addition to making your content more visible, SEO writing can also help you attract high-quality traffic to your website. People who find your content through search engines are of...

  As we go through our daily lives, we often engage in habits that we don't even realize are habits. Charles Duhigg's "The Power of Habit" explores the science behind how habits form, why they are so hard to break, and how we can use this knowledge to make positive changes in our lives. Here are ten key lessons from the book that can help you harness the power of habit: 1. Habits are formed by a three-part loop: cue, routine, and reward. 2. To change a habit, you need to identify the cue and the reward, and then change the routine. 3. Small wins can have a big impact on our motivation and ability to form new habits. 4. Believing in yourself and your ability to change is key to making lasting changes. 5. Willpower is a finite resource, so it's important to set up your environment to support your goals. 6. Social support and accountability can make it easier to stick to your new habits. 7. Habits are contagious, so surrounding yourself with people who have good habi...

 I mean, hello, literally!  After a long 24-month of hiatus, I am back to blogging. It was not a planned decision but rather forced by circumstances and life. I will not talk about those bitter things, but I missed blogging.  I missed the community, the adrenaline rush of writing and posting, waiting for comments, and those interactions over social media. Oh, how I have missed blogging. But as they say, make lemonade when life throws lemon towards you.  I wrote for magazines and books, did content writing for clients like Fortune 500 CEOs, and noted internet personalities. So, while away from blogging, I have never stopped writing.  But then, life threw some unexpected twists in my life. I decided to join the workforce again! After being an independent freelancer for almost 6 years, I joined Govt. of Assam as an official. It's a job that involves lots of IEC activities, so writing will not leave me anytime soon.  Anyway, I will be writing about ...